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What don’t you complain about?

You complain about what they do and what they don’t;

You complain how the economy is, and how it is not;

You complain when it rains and when the sun is shining;

You complain when things go well as well as unwell;

You complain when you work and when its luck;

You complain when you are hungry and when you’ve overeaten;

You complain how life is unfair and when it fairly treats you;

You ask for more freedom but wish for less responsibility;

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Now that am here, now that we are here;

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Now that am here, now that we are here;

What shall I lose to say what I didn’t like about you?

You cooked good meals I know…

You washed my clothes well…

You tendered our house always…

But that’s not what I choose you for;

I wanted a helper, you were;

I wanted love, you were;

I wanted to be loved, you did;

I wanted someone your shape,

I wanted someone your height,

I wanted someone your smile,

I wanted someone your charisma,

I wanted someone your aura,

I wanted anything and everything you.

And now we got to say goodbyes,

I wish you a beautiful life,

I wish you prosperous endeavors,

I wish you fruitful encounters.

I loved you like my heart,

I grew to love you more than me,

I had matured in love with you,

You helped me learn true love,

I learnt…

For anything I did wrong, bear my apologies.

I did it all with good intention.

I would ask you to stay once more,

But I don’t want to live doing that,

Go well and live well,

I hope we meet sometime and somewhere we are both happy,

I wish you success and luck in love,

Am sorry if you didn’t feel loved by me,

I realize there are some things I don’t want to change about me,

As I realize there are some things you won’t compromise either,

Am really, really sorry for anything that hurt you, it was never intentional,

Don’t worry about me, I will be fine, I’ll try to be fine…

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The Equalizer

If you look around…you’ll find people walking, sitting, laughing, sad, busy, and/or serious… But have you ever looked INTO people? I mean like looking at someone and seeing beyond what you see, like seeing through them? If you’ve never, then look directly at their eyes… You’ll find pain inside those who look happy. You’ll find sorrow into those who have almost everything in life. Why? Am about to tell you. It’s because they lack/have something that everyone has…
If you live just slightly above average, there is that thing I call “The Equalizer” that keeps you from bragging, or showing off… Look at those super-rich guys and investigate why they don’t show off..you’ll be amazed to realize that they either have something others don’t, or they lack something almost everyone has…like children, cancer, extreme depression, time for family, their kids are addicts, thousands of enemies, they don’t laugh unless no one is, they hate their wives, and to wrap it all…they don’t care, and when they care they care less, and the less they care about, they care about it  carelessly!!!!
But there are those who escape this “Equalizer” but no for long… Sooner or later, they get caught up. Also, it doesn’t mean that you enjoy when you’re poor…in fact, when you’re poor, you struggle, you over work, you talk to yourself almost always, and you question God than atheist do…  True or False? Fact or Fiction?

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Fate doesn’t exist…there’s no fate

This is a fact…and facts don’t change whether you like them or not. Facts are as real as oxygen, and the fact that there’s no fate is as real as internet.

So, if there is no fate…what is left when we drop the word fate?? I will tell you. It’s REACTION!!

As we already know, science is the road for those who are not locked in the limits of “don’ts”. We are going to use science to proof this little fact. Let’s use newton’s laws of motion. I will just copy-paste them from here

First Law states that:        An object at rest will remain at rest unless acted on by an unbalanced force. An object in motion continues in motion with the same speed and in the same direction unless acted upon by an unbalanced force.

This means that there is a natural tendency of objects to keep on doing what they’re doing. All objects resist changes in their state of motion. In the absence of an unbalanced force, an object in motion will maintain this state of motion.

Second law states that:  Acceleration is produced when a force acts on a mass. The greater the mass (of the object being accelerated) the greater the amount of force needed (to accelerate the object).

This means that heavier objects require more force to move the same distance as lighter objects.

Third law states that:      For every action there is an equal and opposite re-action.

This means that for every force there is a reaction force that is equal in size, but opposite in direction. That is to say that whenever an object pushes another object it gets pushed back in the opposite direction equally hard.

So, we need to decode and see these laws explained in a way a two year old kid would understand. But before we do that, I am going to leave a flexibility turning point that I will put this way: “There are always exceptions, exceptions are everywhere” (and please use that quote with caution, it’s an intellectual property belonging to me!)…so try to think with me, not against me…Like a free thinker, right?? I will assume you agree. So let’s start…

First Law:             If you don’t make a step to do something, it will never be done. If the inventor of the device you are using to view this page didn’t make an effort implementing his/her idea, you’d probably never see this text. That’s a fact. So something has to be done for something to happen! Sometimes, we do something’s but get different results. That’s not fate. It’s an exception! Nature, life or time has a way of implementing exceptions differently.

Second Law:       The better you would want to enjoy your life, the harder you need to work. We all know that that isn’t always true. Some kids are billionaires the moment they are born, automatically. Am yet to find out why there is such difference, but I will soon. According to my reasoning, it happens to compensate for a loss that happened, or a loss to happen… then again, there are places where poverty has a home, an almost permanent home, a place where only journalists know, a place where darkness is a friend, and a place where people live to die…those are the people whom nature have sacrificed for others to enjoy. I call it the rule of  YES-AND-NO. When you say YES to one thing, it automatically means saying NO to another, and vice-versa. You say you are going east, it means you are not going west, you like it or not…that’s a fact!! That’s exactly what nature does to those poor children you see in those journalists cameras.

Third Law:           Here come my favorite line…what goes around, comes back around…and what goes up, must come down…So, it’s not fate that determines what comes our way. Its actions that were done by us, done by someone in the past, or something that nature detects might be done in future, and not necessarily by you. When you do something right, there are higher chances something good will come your way, but something against our wishes and expectations may happen too…

So, someone may ask, “what is nature?” and I will tell them, “Nature is a natural occurrence that works to implement time.”

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